Bullying
There is a new concern about school violence, and police have assumed greater responsibility for helping school officials ensure students’ safety. The most effective ways to prevent or lessen bullying, require school administrators’ commitment. Also increased effort by police interested in increasing school safety can use their influence to encourage schools to address the problem. This growing concern affects the Lincoln Police Department, parents, youth and the community. A partnership will enable the analysis of the problem, program of prevention and the assessment of results to reduce harm caused by specific crime and disorder problems. Working together we can better contribute to student safety.
Who is a bully?
Bullying occurs most often in elementary and somewhat less in middle and high school. Often a bully is someone that has themselves been the victim of abuse. They inflict repeated physical, verbal or psychological attacks or intimidation directed toward victim who cannot properly defend themselves because of size or strength or outnumbered. Infliction includes assault, tripping, intimidation, rumor-spreading and isolation, theft of valued possessions, destruction of another’s work or name calling. In addition to sexual harassment, ostracism based on perceived sexual orientation, or hazing (imposing painfully embarrassing initiation rituals
Victims of Bullying
Victims are usually someone smaller and weaker than their peers and often the nonassertive youth. Having friends, especially ones who will help protect against bullying, appears to reduce the chances of victimization. Occurrences most often happen, when adult supervision is low or absent, such as in the schoolyards, cafeterias, bathrooms, hallways and stairwells. Victims often are reluctant to report this assault, therefore the full extent of bullying is not known or intervention taken. Some reasons victims fail to notify teachers or parents are:
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Fearing retaliations
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Feeling shame at not being able to stand up for themselves
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Fearing they would not be believed
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Not wanting to worry their parents
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Having no confidence that anything would change as a result
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Thinking their parents’ or teacher’s advice would make the problem worse
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Fearing their teacher would tell the bully who told on him or her
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Thinking it was worse to be thought of as a snitch
Consequences of Bullying
Often consequences go beyond embarrassment. Some victims experience psychological and/or physical distress, are frequently absent and cannot concentrate on schoolwork. The often suffer from low self-esteem, and their victimization can lead to depression that can last for years.
Responses to Bullying in School
Analyze your local problem for better understanding of the extent of the problem and identifying bully hot spots, chronic victims and chronic offenders.